10 Best Sex Toys For Lesbian Couples

Sex between ladies is magical. It is fascinating how two women can have sex and experience mind blowing orgasm without dicks involved. Personally, I’m a big fan of scissoring and face sitting, I just can’t get enough. Most people think that sex between women is not satisfying, you have no idea what you are missing. Sex between women is not just for lesbians, it is also for bisexual women, pansexual women and even straight women open to having fun. There are many ways to enjoy lesbian sex and the most exciting one is using the best sex toys for lesbians.

Lesbian sex tips


Don’t jump straight to her erogenous zones, instead start by setting the scene and mood for steamy sex. You can begin with a blindfold and a feather tickler. In the right hands a feather tickler can be a very effective accessory. Pass the tickler over her inner thighs and be sure to deliver light strokes to some of her sensitive areas. If you put it to good use you are likely to give her goosebumps and intense tendrils of arousal. Use wet ice cubes to introduce sensational thrills to her naked skin. Even better use a vibrating ice massager to give her an erotic ice massage. You can also add massage candles, which when lit, add a very relaxing scent to the room. These candles melt leaving a relaxing oil which you can drizzle on her ass or back.

Nipple Stimulation

Breasts are an obvious choice due to their sensitivity. And it’s not just the nipples and areolae. There is more to a breast than these two parts. Tease the surrounding areas of her tits as way of getting her nipples arouses and begging for attention. Introduce various accessories such as feather ticklers or a Wartenberg Pinwheel to breast and nipple stimulation. Depending on how kinky you and your partner can get, introduce vampire gloves, nipple clamps or nipple suction tools.

The clitoris

A big percentage of women orgasm from clitoral stimulation as opposed to vaginal penetration. Learn how to stimulate her clitoris either by scissoring or using the best sex toys for lesbians. For example, bullet vibrators are very small yet powerful enough to give you back-arching orgasms. For even better clitoral stimulation, wands should come in handy.

Vaginal penetration

There are so many toys for vaginal penetration from dildos to rabbit vibrators. There also sex toys such as jiggle balls and love eggs that are worn as a pre-cursor to erotic sex. Always choose body safe toys, preferably toys made of silicone as they are easier to clean. Do not under any circumstance choose a porous sex toy.

Anal Play

As more people discover the pleasures of anal sex, more anal toys are made. It is now not a matter of if you will ever have anal it is when will have anal sex. It has become so mainstream that some women would rather have anal sex than vaginal sex. The line of continues to expand from cute butt plugs to large anal dildos. Our favorites are fox tail and vibrating butt plugs. You just can’t get enough of partner butt naked shaking her fox tail butt plug.

Top Sex Toys For Lesbians

Njoy Pure Wand

Njoy Pure Wand

I’ve seen and used many toys in my lifetime but very few come close to the Njoy Pure Wand. She is a piece of art, I would have put her on display if only I weren’t inserting her in my unmentionables. First time I saw the Njoy Pure Wand was in a porn video and I knew I had to get one. It is so sleek, beautiful and has curvy edges that will have you yearning for more.

Unlike most of my favorite toys, the Njoy Pure Wand does not vibrate. The lack of a vibration and the weight were kind of a turn off at first, until it was used on me. It is size is intimidating to say the least. That a whole 8 inches with the largest tip being 1.5 inches.

Don’t get me wrong, the sex toy is great but you’ll need to work up a little bit of courage to use it. The Njoy Pure Wand has two bulbous ends which are connected together by a curved crescent shaft. Both bulbous ends are used usable. It has a total length of 8 inches and weighs over 1.5lbs. It is certainly one of the heaviest dildo I’ve ever used.

The Njoy Pure Wand is made of 316 medical grade stainless steel, which ensures that it doesn’t degrade nor does it corrode. It’s hypoallergenic, non-porous, pure, durable and perfectly smooth.

At 1.5 lbs, you will definitely feel its weight after holding it for a few minutes. Which is the idea behind the design since it is advertised as a ‘G-spot hammer’. The additional weight comes at an advantage since all you have to do is hold it in place and it does the rest. Add a little movement to make sure it ‘hits’ all the right places. Jiggle in place, small circles or rock back and forth. Any of these techniques should work.

I’ve had squirting orgasms before but quite as often as I would like. Thanks to the Njoy Pure Wand, which delivers superb stimulation to my G-spot, I can now experience a squirting orgasm almost every day. My partner doesn’t really fancy g-spot orgasms, she is more of a clitoral orgasms kind of lady. We’ve figured out a way to use this toy to speed up and enhance her clitoral orgasms.

She’s a big a fan of temperature play, we sometimes put the toy in cold water for a few minutes. Fish it out, wipe it and insert it in her vagina. As the toy glides in, she makes the ‘I wanna punch you face’ and as it glides deeper her faces relaxes and you can tell she’s enjoying every inch of the Njoy Pure Wand.

Lelo Smart Wand Rechargeable Vibrator

Lelo Smart Wand Rechargeable Vibrator

Small toys always look cute and are easy to carry around when traveling. We were 100% sold on this idea until we bought the Lelo Smart Wand. It is a large vibrator that gave us a whole new appreciation of large toys. The thought of holding such a large vibrator close to your small clit is deeply satisfying. For such a large vibrator, the Lelo Smart wand is sleek and elegant.

The packaging is nicely presented in a beautiful hard-card box. As soon as you take off the lid you are greeted by little compartments where the various contents are neatly tucked away. Inside the box is a Lelo Smart Wand, charger, warranty card, instructions, lube sample and a storage bag.

The Lelo wand is made of silicone with a dash of chrome-esque. It is stylish, elegant yet simple in design. At the bottom is a pinhole where you connect a pin charger. End to end length following its outer curve is 13 inches. The silicone head is 3 inches high and has a girth of about 7.5 inches. As you approach the end of the handle, its girth tapers down to 3.5 inches before widening to 5 inches. The slender middle is arguably the best position to grip as it prevents you from accidentally slipping down and messing with controls.

The said controls are located above the champagne ABS insert. There are three controls and each control is engraved in a loop. The Plus and Minus buttons control the intensity while middle button is controls the mode. To access the travel lock, you press the Plus and Minus buttons together for about 5 seconds. You can also unlock it by plugging in the charger.

With the Lelo large you get 8 vibration patterns for sensational body massages as well incredible stimulation in your intimate areas. Since it is made of silicone, you can pair it with any water-based lube. And it’s 100% waterproof such that even the charging point is waterproof. Speaking of charging, it takes 2 hours to full charge the battery.

Like any other wand, the Lelo Smart is a clit vibrator. It has deep rumbly vibrations that shake you to your core. You can feel as the vibrations hot every single part of your clit. They travel far and wide even to your butthole.

Hey there, do you like vaginal penetration with large toys? I found the Lelo Wand to be very effective in g-spot stimulation. You will need to apply a lot of lube to help ease it into your vagina. Apply a little bit of pressure so that the head is trapped in your hottest spots. Turn on your preferred vibration setting and combine it with a clitoral vibrator. Ever heard of a double dose of orgasms? That’s exactly what you are going to get and possibly a squirting orgasm.

The Lelo Smart Wand has one drawback, the vibrations are so strong that they travel through the handle. If you hold it for too long it could cause irritation or numbness and most likely mess up your grip. It takes a while but you get used to it and you can tweak the settings to get a favorable vibration pattern.

Icicles No 48 Butt Plug

Icicles Lesbians Butt Plug

For a very long time butt play was a No No for me, I would squirm at the thought of inserting anything in my behind. Until one day, my partner pinned me down, applied lube on my butthole and inserted a foxtail butt plug. It was kind of painful at first but as time went by I was like, “It is not that bad.” Now I can I can safely insert any butt plug or midsized toy in my ass. I’m yet to use any large anal toy and I’m no hurry to get there.

The Icicles No 48 is a gorgeous glass butt plug with a picture perfect design. It has a pleasant pink color and gorgeous glass flower for a base. It has a nice weight to it and at the very end is a lovely bulb. The bulb is small enough for beginner yet big enough to feel satisfying for an intermediate and advanced user.

The tear drop design is perfect for anal play as it is goes in and comes out easily. And flower base sticks out begging for a tongue to lick it. The base is big enough such that the likelihood of the butt plug disappearing in your body is next to none.

It lies very comfortably between your ass cheeks and does not slip out unless it’s pulled out. I tried to use it during sex and I’m pleased to say that it felt great. I could feel a tightening sensation as I came and my partner couldn’t help stare at my ass anytime I had the butt plug.

Temperature play

My partner is a big fan of temperature play, she leaves her icicles butt plug in cold water and then inserts it in her ass. I just sit back and watch her walk around the house shaking her ass cheeks screaming in pleasure.

Womanizer Starlet

Womanizer Starlet Clitoral Vibrator

The Womanizer line has been around for a couple of years. We have tried a couple of toys from the Womanizer line and our favorite was the original womanizer. We held on to it for a couple of years until we bought the Womanizer Starlet. It is queer looking and super tiny. You can carry it to work and enjoy clitoral stimulation like never before.

It’s 3.5 inches long and 1.75 inches wide. It is so small that it can fit in tiny hands. Due to small it small size, you might be quick to assume that it will difficult to use the Womanizer starlet. However, that is not the case. It has 4 intensity levels which are controlled by the sole button on the front.

The Womanizer starlet is splash proof and features a combination of soft matte silicone and non-porous ABS plastic. Both materials are odor-free and body-safe. You can use without lube but as always a little lube is good for friction reduction. The toy is USB rechargeable and has an estimated play time of 30 minutes.

For a suction-based toy, 30 minutes play time is more than enough. You are likely to orgasm in less than 20 minutes, some orgasm in less than 5 minutes.

What exactly does the Womanizer Starlet do?

It uses patented Pleasure Air Technology combined with pulsating vibrations and sweet suction to stimulate your clit without making contact. Soft pressure waves suck your click as gentle vibration pulsate causing a plethora of sensations. And although it is so small, the Womanizer is ideal for use during sex.

Lovehoney Beaded Sensual Glass Dildo

One for glass toy lovers. Glass sex toys are not only fun to use but also marvelous to look at. You look at the Lovehoney Beaded Sensual Glass Dildo and be like, “She sure is beautiful.” Nothing comes close to having a cold dildo inserted up your ass or vagina. You feel like hitting or cursing your partner but at the same time it feels kinda great. And now all you want is to push it even further.
The Lovehoney Beaded Glass Dildo is not your typical dildo. It looks more like anal beads that it is a dildo. It has a row or pronounced bulbs which combined with the smooth curves take couple/solo play to a whole new level. The beaded glass dildo is the perfect accessory for some great foreplay and vaginal or anal stimulation. It can also be used for some chilling and spine-tingling massage.
Put the damn toy in a freezer and let it get cold for a few minutes, tie up or blind fold your partner. Undress her and let her lie in bed. Make out with her for a few minutes and leave her wanting for more. Fetch the Lovehoney glass dildo, and slowly run it over her most sensitive parts. Watch her moan, squirm and ask for more. Continue teasing her until she gives in to your ‘cold’ touch.
Before getting too caught up in temperature play, be sure that the dildo is at the right temperature. You don’t want to ruin the whole experience by using a dildo that’s too cold.

Key features

  • Total Length: 9”
  • Insertable length: 8”
  • Material: glass
  • Circumference: 5.5”
  • Unisex and perfect for couples
  • Perfect for cold and hot sensations

Fetish fantasy Double Delight Strap-On Double Dildo Set

Fetish Fantasy Double Dildo Set

A dildo for everyone. It is only limited to lesbian couples since it can be used by straight couples for pegging.
The Fetish fantasy double delight strap-on Dildo is kind of special, one end is worn by one the women internally while the second end goes…… mmmm!!! Wherever you want it to. It does not confine to just one position, there are so many positions and styles you can try out with the fetish fantasy dildo. It has realistic heads and ripped shafts.
It comes with an elastic harness that helps secure the dildo in place once it is worn. You get about 12 inches of dildo to enjoy (6 inches for each side). The elastic harness makes it easy to secure it on your body no matter your body size. It is also versatile enough for endless play options.
Remember to use water-based lube for added sensation. What’s more, you get a free blindfold. It’s arguably one of the best sex toys for lesbians.

Key Features

  • Free blindfold included
  • Girth: 4.7 inches
  • 6 inches of insertable length on both sides
  • Curved, textured shafts
  • Double ended strap on for satisfying sensations
  • Maximum harness size: 30

Lovehoney Double Wow Strapless Strap-On Dildo

There are so many ways that lesbian couples can have sex but I think a strapless strap-on dildo is one of the best. The best part is that the stimulation is both ways. You and your partner get to experience mind blowing sensations unlike what you would experience when using a typical strap-on. It also strengthens your kegel muscles.
The Lovehoney strapless dildo is a simple toy and sometimes simplicity is best. There are no fancy straps or vibrators. It is held in place by use of kegel muscles. It is made of flexible PVC which is molded to look like a real cock. Not like an actual dick, the color and texture is not real but the veins and head are good enough.
It has one large insertable bulb that is inserted in the vagina, where it is held in position by your kegel muscles. At the base of the shaft, there are rounded bumps that tend to stimulate the wearer’s clit as she thrusts harder and faster.
It is also perfect for some oral play. Picture it this way, you wear it and your partner starts giving you a blowjob. As she strokes and sucks your dick, the resulting motion is transmitted to your clit. You will be begging for more in no time.
Throw in a vibrating butt plug and you will be experiencing ridiculously great orgasms. Nothing can go wrong when you have one of the best sex toy for lesbians.

Desire Luxury Panty Vibrator

Panty vibrators are the best sex toys for lesbians who love public orgasms. It doesn’t get any better than being in a public place with your partner while wearing a panty vibrator. She gets the remote and can do with it whatever she pleases. She does not warn you before she turns on the vibrator. So you are left there knowing it will happen but not knowing when it will happen. The anticipation and the suspense alone will get your panties wet. To make it even more fun, you both wear vibrator panties and exchange remote controls. Now watch her try to control her public orgasm and return the favor.
The Desire luxury panty vibrator is a slip kind of panty with ribbon ties on the sides. It has a saddle-shaped vibrator that has 8 speeds & 12 patterns. Although it has so many speeds and patterns, it is actually very discreet. You could be in public with a panty vibrator and no one even knows, it is that quiet. It can be controlled from up to eight meters away.
The vibrator is waterproof but the remote control isn’t. You might want to keep it out of water.

Key Features

  • 8 speeds & 12 patterns
  • USB rechargeable
  • Remote range: 8 meters
  • Fully charge: 120 minutes and can last for about 120 minutes of play
  • Luxurious storage & charging case

Lovehoney Pussy Pump

A super sensitive pussy means more glorified orgasms, which is exactly what you get with the Lovehoney Supreme Sensation Pussy Pump.
There is a very fine line between pleasure and pain. For some pain is pleasure. Fascinating. Pussy pumps are used to increase the amount of blood flowing to the area. There are different reasons why women do that but the main reason is to increase sensitivity. Others do it for the swollen look.
First things first, you will need to shave/wax/trim your pubes. It is not a requirement but it ensures that the seal is tight. Also, apply a little bit of lube on the rim of the suction cup and of course on your body.
Once you are all set and done, your partner/you can place the pump on your pubic area. Be sure to position it perfectly to avoid discomfort. Once in position, push the cup firmly against your skin while squeezing the bulb. Continue squeezing until the seal is secure. Keep pumping and releasing until your lips are swollen the way you want them to.
While using the pussy pump you will expect to feel pain on the contrary you will experience a little bit of pain and a little pleasure. You will be feeling pain but in a good way.
After you are done pumping and pussy is super swollen, now you can have sex any way you want it. You will feel incredible sensations since you are pussy is super sensitive. Enjoy it while it lasts. To test the waters, let your partner go down on you.

Key Features

  • 4” chamber that encases the labia minora, majora and the clitoris
  • Easy to use
  • Transparent cup that allow you to watch as you swell
  • Material: ABS

Lovehoney Flash Clitoral Vibrator

The vulva and clit has thousands of nerve endings which are not easily stimulated through normal sex. However, they can be stimulated by use of a vibrator such as the Lovehoney flash 7 clitoral vibrator. It’s super discreet such that you can even carry it to work and charge it openly and no one would even realize it’s a vibrator.
It splits into two parts one part that looks like a flash drive and you can charge it with your laptop. It is discreet that you can carry it anywhere you want to go. The clitoral vibrator has a precision tip that is coupled with a 7 function motor, which is super quiet and never misses a spot. It delivers galactic orgasms with its precision tip.
The Lovehoney clitoral vibrator is waterproof and USB rechargeable. The motor has 3 patterns and 4 speeds, which aims the precision tip straight to your clit. Not only do you get pin point sensations but you also get tingling sensations all over.
It can be used solo or you can hand it over to your partner and let her take the wheel.

Key Features

  • Length: 4.75”
  • Circumference: 1.75”
  • USB rechargeable
  • 4 speeds & 3 patterns
  • Easy to use
  • Discreet and small in size
  • Material: silicone
  • Waterproof

Types of Lesbian Toys

There are so many types of lesbian toys yet the most popular are the double dildos, vibrators and strap-ons. Take a look at the different types of lesbian toys available.


This wouldn’t be a lesbian sex toy review if there was no mention of the strap-ons. They consist of a harness, a dildo and an O-ring for dildo insertion. Strap-ons are ideal for beginners since they are easy to use. They don’t require much training. One partner wears the strap-on and screws the other.

Double Dildo

Double dildos are also known as double-ended dildos. This is a dildo with two dildos one on each end. It is a special kind of dildo since it can be used for solo play and also couple play. For solo play, one end goes in the ass while the other goes in the vagina. The same can be done as a couple. There are also double dildos specifically designed for couples. How do they work? One end goes into one lady’s vagina while the other end goes into the vagina of the other lady.


Vibrators range from rabbit and G-Spot vibrators to tiny clitoral lubes. There is a vibrator every woman. They come in different sizes, shapes, functions and materials.
Vibrators are the best sex toys for lesbians especially those who love to explore and have fun. Picture it this way, one of you wears the vibrator the other one carries the remote. You both go to a movie, concert, shopping mall or any public place, without warning hit the vibration buttons and watch as she tries to control the stimulation.


Instead of buying the double dildo, you can go for simple dildos and take turns penetrating each other. It is simple but effective. Nowadays there are even squirting dildos- dildos that ejaculate edible cum. Such kind of dildos would make for a good morning blowjob.

Strapless Strap-On

Strapless strap-on is becoming very popular with lesbians, due to the fact that the stimulation is both ways. Both the ‘giver’ and the ‘receiver’ are stimulated. Since it requires no straps, the wearer holds it using her internal muscles giving her full control of the toy with her hip movements.

Anal Toys

Anal toys are not specifically designed for lesbians, most of them can be used by couples and single men. Anal play is not child’s play, don’t punch above your weight. Start small with anal beads and butt plugs. As you gain experience and control you can work your way up with bigger toys.

Best Sex Positions for Lesbians


scissor sex position

This is one of my favorite positions. Some vulva to vulva action. Here is how to do it:
Lie down on your bed, couch or any place that is comfortable. Your partner goes on top of you so that clit and vulvas are within touching distance. Make sure that you are both in a comfortable position before you start grinding.
A little bit of foreplay will do you good, you get all fired up and wet. Once y’all set, you can start by grinding slowly to make sure everyone is comfortable and increase the intensity as you go.


The 69 sex position is a classic, it’s been there for ages. And there is no denying that it is a very intimate position. Mutual stimulation at its best.

69One partner goes down and the other partner goes on top. But in a reverse position where her head faces your vagina and yours faces hers. With the legs spread of course, for some ‘head’ room.
And then there is the standing 69
This is one is not easy, it requires a fair amount of strength. The stronger lady stands up with her legs well apart for stability and ‘head’ room. The other lady comes in upside down with her legs around the shoulders of the stronger one for support.
I know what you are thinking, “It is hard and nerve-wracking.” You are right it is hard but once you wrap your arms around her waist and she wraps hers around your waist. Once you get the hang of it, you find the whole experience to be fun.


spooningA very simple yet very effective position. You both lay on your sides while facing the same direction. In this position you can stretch your hand around her waist straight to her crotch and finger her. Or you can grab her from behind and finger either her vagina or ass.
This style also presents a good position to use some of the best sex toys for lesbians such as a strap on or strapless strap-on dildo.


Queening Sex PositionAnother one of favorite positions. Face-sitting. It is the ultimate turn on, having your face sat on by lady with a dripping wet pussy.
One partner lies down and the other straddles them while facing the opposite direction. She lines her vulva with your mouth. Remember not to suffocate your partner while at it. If you are the one doing the face sitting try to move your hips gently preferably back and forth. This mimic a riding position but this time you will be riding her face.

Four Square

Foursquare sex positionThis one is super-hot. One partner goes down all fours and the other goes behind her to get a view of all of her in all her glory and magnificence. The kneeling partner is supposed to spread her legs giving the other partner full view and access to her kingdom.
While in this position, she can either eat both your ass and vagina, stroke your clit or penetrate you with a sex toy.
Pick one of these sex toys and try out any position recommended. Enjoy, have fun and explore.

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